Viola Davis |
Some of the points I came up with are as follow:
1. A True Representation of Us
While I was living in China. I had a lot of people asking me if my hair was fake or real. Although a few Chinese have seen Black people on TV and even on the streets, most believe that the straight weaves that they see on Black women is our real hair. So, when they see me walking on the street with my afro puff, twist out, twists and what not, they automatically assume I was wearing a fake. Celebrities such as Oprah, Beyonce, Michelle Obama with straight hair are not really showing the "outside" world what our hair really looks like.
2. Minimal discrimination between us and the "other" race
People will only criticize what they don't know and aren't used to. It's a shame that we continue to let them dictate "appropriate" hairstyles for us to the point that we have to send our own child home for wearing her hair in an "unacceptable" hairstyle. But if more of us go to job interviews, dates and other functions with our hair out in it's kinky coily state, I feel there will be reduced tension between us and the "other" race. 3. Eradication of Slave Hair Mentality
4. Knowledge, Empowerment and Self Love
Teyonah Parris |
5. No need to wear other people's hair
If you've seen the documentary "Good Hair" by Chris Rock, I'm sure you're aware that the "human hair" which you paid hundreds of dollars for were sacrificed to some questionable gods. Also, did you know that some of those hair were secretly cut off from other women's hair as they were sleeping or watching a movie at the cinema?
Personally, I stopped wearing "human hair" weaves after watching this documentary because I refused to take part in the craziness. I was also enlightened by the film because it really made me think and ask myself why a Black woman like myself has to pay top $$ for packs of stolen/sacrificed INDIAN hair, when I'm not Indian. I also knew that wearing hair that was sacrificed to some unknown gods cannot be spiritually right and so I refused to take part in such sin. Now, I guess synthetic weaves are okay since they were manufactured in a factory. Nevertheless, I plan to completely eliminate wigs and weaves from my hair wardrobe.
What other points would you add to these 5 points? Please leave them in the comment box
Hey, I just discovered your blog, very interesting.
ReplyDeleteThe points n°1 and n°2 seems really important to me.
One day, I was with co-workers (mostly white girls) talking about the fact that sometimes it's hard to keep my hair in Fresh fro every day, you know, after the night etc. One of them immediatly told me that I must cut them all or straighten them.
Since then, I realized that I must keep my hair in Fro, not only because of the answer I love my Fro, because people still think that the way my hair grow is bad.
The most important think is to learn how to wear it everyday.
Excuse my english, I'm actually French.
I love your blog,
Ingrid.
Thanks for the shout out Ingrid! Afros are definitely high maintenance, this is why I rarely do them. yes, I believe the more of our hair they see, the more they (including other Black people) will be familiar with it. And we won't have to worry about receiving such rude comments.
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